Hey man, I really respect you for reading this article. You see, most guys are out there trying to learn what the fancy, nice, interesting lines are, but they never stop to think. They never stop to think what a bad line might be. This is why i’m here to reveal to you what a bad pick up line is. And how to avoid bad pick up lines.
1) A pick up line is more then a set of words
Just imagine this… Imagine a guy all breathy, having staring, aggressive eyes and walking with an aggressive walk. Now imagine him walking up to a girl, and then saying “Hi”, with a tonality like he’s shouting at her and he wants to start a fight. Then, imagine the (exact same guy), slowly and casually walking up to a woman with twinkling eyes, a smooth smile and softened gaze. Imagine him saying “Hi” in a sweet endearing fashion like saying hi to someone he loves. Will these two produce different results? You betcha!
2) Best way to handle the non-verbal – being authentic
There is nothing that makes a woman cringe more than a line that’s not true. A line a guy says just to get something, even if he doesn’t mean it will trigger creep alert. Women literally have a sixth sense for it. Most of the time when women complain of a guy’s creepy approach, this is what they mean.
A guy can for example read a line like “I’ve seen you around and find you attractive. I just have to get your name”… Then, he says “wow sounds cool” and walks around trying to spot a woman to use it on. That’s fake. Its not genuine. You’re using it as a tool and she can tell. That line only works when it is what you’re actually thinking. For example its a woman you’ve seen around many times and even exchanged looks with.
3) A line that gives it all is a bad pick up line
Now, I said you want to be genuine, but I am now saying something contradictory? Actually, yes. If you see a guy who just runs up to a woman who doesn’t know from before on the street, and says he wants to make babies with her, this is genuine, but it also makes a bad line.
Isn’t it kind of confusing why women do this? Well, kinda. The truth is they want to avoid social shaming and labeling. If she gets with a guy too easily, she fears insults from other women. This is why she fears a man being too direct, and her being seen responding positively to it. She will actually overplay the negative response, just to make sure everyone around knows she’s “not easy”. She likes it so that she can give you a “go” signal first.
What you want to do is walk up to her as if you’re talking to an old friend. You keep it casual, social and entirely asexual. Just the very act of you approaching her, and talking to her, is enough of a signal to let her know you are showing interest. You don’t have to do it with your words.
If you have any chance at all, whatsoever, she will signal indicators of interest for more. The only exception is if she’s super socially anxious. In that case, you just need to be even more friendly and social, so she feels so at ease with you that she can let go and flirt and show that interest.
4) Being too casual is bad
A line can also be bad if its too subtle and indirect. How does this fit the point I made previously? Well, it fits with all 3 previous points. A line will come across as bad, if its subtle and indirect at the wrong time! You see, this is where we get into the subtleties.
When you see some woman, and you’re thinking “wow she’s the most amazing woman ever”, to then go and say something indirect and pretending like she’s a random woman, will fail. It will fail because it will come across as odd and fake. Your heart is pounding at her beauty, and yet you try to pull off that you couldn’t care less who she is. Its dumb.
As for strangers… Something that women hate a lot, is if they give you a ton of signs of interest, and you don’t move forward. Just think of a situation like this – you’re at a bar, and wherever you are, this one woman keeps somehow ending up dancing next to you. The way to mess it up is to then go and be like “Do you have any advice on a good movie?” and pretend to be talking to a man. The right thing to do is just accept her invitation. If she’s so direct, you go and you directly say “Hey, I like you, what’s your name?”.
I hope you’re done with the bad pick up lines thing, but if you’re still confused on how you stack up with women, and what you can do to get better,I think you need to fill out this quiz, and get a personal report on what you need to do, in order to get more women. Just answer the questions honestly!
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